The Best Man I Ever Met
by morgan on 01/20/09 at 3:25 pm
A few people had influenced my life but if I have to pick one person who I consider a mentor, I’ll pick my dad. I don’t know where to begin to explain about his character. He was the best man I have ever met. He passed away about 17 years ago but I still miss him and wish for his wisdom everyday.
My dad lost his parents in a young age and had to take care of his brothers and sister. They all turned out very successful people and all because of my dad’s thoughtfulness and generosity. He was indeed very generous person. I don’t think I know anyone like him. I remember when I was a little girl and he was in charge of accounting for a huge factory. When he found out that one of the poor workers has a daughter who is getting married and the father had no money for the dowry, my dad provided the family everything they needed for the wedding out of his own pocket.
My dad always taught me to be generous and thoughtful and take care of people. He used to say life is full of opportunities and you should take advantage of them but with hard work. He always provided us with everything we needed but expected us to work hard to keep the things we wanted. He also taught me to never give up. I think because he never gave up on anything. Even if there was a hard time in our life, he would never let us see it. He loved “LIFE” and I think that is the most important lesson I have learned.
Thank you dad for being my father and my friend.
10 Comments
Q-mars Sahebkar
Jan 23rd, 2009
10:21 am
This is a good story and you are a good writer
Diane Addante, GFWC IL
Jan 23rd, 2009
7:05 pm
Your dad sounds like everything a father should be-mostly a good example. Thanks for sharing and causing me to think about how fortunate I am to have a great dad too. He’s here in west suburban Chicago from Bloomington, IN painting my basement to help out. My dad is a little gruff on the outside, but really, the biggest marshmallow ever. Wish I had known that growing up!
Brenda Breeden
Jan 27th, 2009
9:20 am
How lucky we were to have such great fathers. Your article hit near to my heart. You did a great job with your blog.
Madelynne Johnson
Jan 27th, 2009
10:46 am
Yes, we must follow your dad’s example and love/appreciate LIFE.
Congrats on your selection to join the GFWC blog!
Elaine Coniglio
Jan 27th, 2009
11:33 am
It seems that your father’s love of life and generous spirit is sorely missing in today’s self-centered society. It sad he died so young, and yet his influence in your life is very visible.
Carole Nenninger
Jan 27th, 2009
2:37 pm
The virtue of generosity is one of the most important in our lives. Whether life gives us great intelligence, riches, or just time, it is crucial to remember to share our gifts without expecting anything in return. Thanks for sharing the great role model you had, Morgan.
Jerri Henderson
Jan 27th, 2009
10:13 pm
Morgan,
What a wonderful example your dad left on you. I know you follow in his footsteps, in the little time I got to know you, you have the same morals. Great job!! Take Care!!
Tanya Smith
Jan 31st, 2009
11:06 am
What a great role model your father was! Yes, many of of us today lack a the generous spirit and today’s life! We are more of a “selfish” society nowadays.
Marge Groene
Jan 31st, 2009
8:49 pm
Morgan, What a stroke of good fortune that you had such a wonderful father. He has shaped your life for the better.
Liz Affronti
Feb 13th, 2009
5:33 pm
Thanks, Morgan for sharing your heart. I know how important it is to have the wisdom of a really good Dad. We have been privileged to hear you speak of your family and share your visit home. I believe we realize how important your family is to you. What a blessing to have a wonderful, supportive and loving family.
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